Wednesday, November 25, 2009

A Comment Delivered My Blog From Obscurity

Jumpstarted By A Comment

When I first got into the doors of the blogosphere, I felt like I have crashed into someone else’s party. There were many people in attendance but no one seemed to give a damn that I was there. The shy person in me wanted to get out as fast as I could to the confines of an enclave I was more familiar with and where I felt comfortable. The other side of me who seldom leaves a challenge go untried wanted to stay and just make the most out of the situation. I did not need to toss a coin to see which side would win. I did what I believe was the more logical thing to do. I decided to stay. I could always head towards the door if ever it did not work.

I knew that the the first thing I had to do was seek out the acquaintance of everyone I could manage to rub my elbows with. I believed people would only be strangers if you would let them. It did not take long before I found myself into the thick of a blog hopping adventure. My agenda was not only to get to know as many as I could "shake hands" with but also to learn from them. There was always something to learn from each blog I visited and always when a blog post hooked my attention, I wouldn’t go back to my hopping without leaving a comment.

Commenting was a task I took seriously. Always, I had to be very clear with myself on why I am making a comment. I did not want to waste my time nor the author's time on comments I feel was of no value. There were several reasons behind every comment I made. It could be that I just wanted the author to know how much I appreciate his/her work. It may also be that I wanted to share my thoughts on the subject of the article based upon my own experiences. Sometimes, I raised questions on issues the author has raised for clarification on some points I was not very clear about. Whatever the reason or reasons behind comments I made, I always made sure that I did it in a way that was polite, with respect and devoid of arrogance. It was the least I could do as I consider it a great privilege to be allowed to share in the author’s personal thoughts

Then it happened! I left a comment on a physical fitness blog, Inspiration Life. Terilynn, the blog’s author, writes her physical fitness post in a manner which made me really want to give the exercises she suggested a try if only I wasn’t too old to go for it. LOL. She must have liked the comment. She added my blog into her blogroll. Inspiration Life was soon to be chosen as a Blog of Note by Blogger. As a result of the honor, Terilynn’s blog was an instant hit. My blog rode on the fame of her blog. Her blog was getting several thousand hits a day as a result. Visitors to her blog clicked on my link. Imagine my surprise when I was getting several hundreds of hits a day from people visiting her blog. For a blog, that was only three weeks old, that was simply awesome.

The visitors soon dwindled when a new set of blogs were named Blogs of Note. My blog, however, continued to receive visitors from Terilynn’s blog and surely would continue to do so. Thanks to Terilynn, I had met lots of nice people and made friends who had made my blogging saga, a wonderful experience given the fact that I did not fit into the mold of what most people believe an ideal blogger should be. Who would have believed that one comment could deliver your blog from obscurity.

By Julehya

Note: I was intending to write on the subject of commenting ethics but in the process of doing a research I have discovered blogs that have already explored the subject. If you are interested you could see them here and here. The research also led me to discover this beautiful article written by Julehya which not only spoke of how commenting on other blogs could help you get your blog going but also on the ethics she observed when commenting on blogs which I believe every commenter should observe. The article first appeared in November 29, 2008 on the blog, Take It To The Limit. Julehya was referring to her other blog, Before the Sun Sets, in this article. Currently said blog has been put on hold for some reason but Julehya is confident she would be able to relaunch it very soon. Ironically, even Terrilyn's blog is now limited to private access. I feel this article which attracted 32 comments is still very relevant. I have secured the permission of Julehya to have it republished here. I hope you would love the article as much as I did.

12 comments:

  1. A blogging experience well told. I am currently going through various blogs as I intend to give blogging a try. This one is truly inspirational. I am heading to Julehya's blog from here.

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  2. Is not everything in life about luck or is it fate when an effect like this happens with your blog?

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  3. I think luck plays a little role herein. If you look into Julehya's blog, you would notice that it is both intelligent and beautifully written. It is one blog you would love to go back to and follow it's development. It is one terrific blog if only she could post more regularly.

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  4. I completely agree with you on the subject of leaving comments. I know that when my blog receives comments, someone took the time to read it and felt strongly enough on the subject to post a comment. I believe we have too many people that only visit blogs to get "credit" or "drop" or "click" counted. By reading various blogs, I have learned things that help me in my own blogging. Thank you for the well-written article, as opposed to the "I went to the mall, and bought a new pair of shoes" type of article.

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  5. I feel the same at times. Your story gives me hope ;) TFS your experience!

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  6. As in real life, anything is possible in the blogosphere. One little comment could make a big different.

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  7. I comment to share my views on the topic and if the post is something about authors personal life which is sad I convey my support to him/her.

    Thanks
    TC

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  8. Just like you I just stumbled upon the world of blogs and seem don't know how to go over the shyness and meet different people. Thanks for sharing this input as it is very relevant and sure point to take note of!

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  9. I totally agree, there are sites that are just advertising pages with nothing to say, but I LOVE to find blogs that really say something, and are well thought out. And then just like a good conversation I love to leave my 2 cents behind! Thank you!

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  10. I really like your comment about the party - you are so right. There are many MANY great blogs out there - but how do people find you! So you just keep blogging, promoting and offering good content until someone "sees" you and things happen. You should be very proud of yourself for sticking to it and getting results! High five!

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  12. I think you are right. There are number of sites which are only advertising but I want to follow the blogs which express real life events or experiences.

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